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I guess could just ignore her lah.. Almost the whole world (or maybe SPORE lah) know ur name is DASMOND not DESMND.. And as the show name state, You Hua Jiu Shuo, of course it means straightforward and to the point.. If she could say straightforward things in her blog why can’t she say them again through her mouth.. Nonsense lah she..

YAYA!! I saw the mistake in ur name too!!

o well…she’s not xiaxue for nth…so get used to it rong shao! hehe

i think she’s thinking like a blonde. though she’s not really a blonde. just dumb. attention seeking girl which prolly only thinks she’s right in her own comments. she doesn’t know how she treats other people, that’s why she’s getting the exact same treatment.

my point of view.

Well, to me… I guess it’s about being able to “perform” in the right space and place.

Like Xia Xue, she can do so well behind her computer screen saying all sorts of things we can’t imagine of but when it comes to appearing on national TV and being interviewed and expected to say what she typed behind the cosy little screen of hers, it’ll probably become a challenge to her. The cyber space is still probably her place.

Just imagine an introvert and nerdy computer geek who can “fight” and “command” in computer games. If you were to ask him to do that in real life, it might be a different thing already.

Just my “22″ cents worth. =P

I totally concur with what you and PingTing said!

I mean SERIOUSLY, her bitchin routine is gettin mouldier than a month-old Gardenia

aiya…every1 has their own freedom to write wadever dey wan on their blog ba.. no use wondering wads on her mind anyway.. she probably wont even care pple commenting/questioning on her blog.. but i tink its nt right to say mean tings abt a person’s appearance..mayb she dun hv the habit of buying mirrors

Hmm… How do you describe a person who writes one thing but says another thing? Fake I suppose. Like you mentioned, if one can write it, what’s the difficulty in saying it, be it on national TV.

Since there was really such an entry on Steven Lim and Maia in Xiaxue’s blog, and thus the invitation to appear in ????, to speak her mind or clarify, if otherwise, I think there’s really nothing wrong. But her reaction in her blog seems to reflect unsecurity.

But then again, was it just another “publicity stunt” to attract attention?

Hi Dasmond, can I check with you if you have any idea if the Singapore Radio Awards is an event open to public or by invitation only? Thanks much

Nice Dasmond! I support YOU!!! well.. she’s jus talking craps la.. hahaaa. she’s a straightforward person too. can see from her blog.. and she’s always like to do sth to publicize herself.. so.. great man Dasmond! jus dun care wad she says la.. she’s jus wanna do some publicity in her blog.. who ask her to be so popular right.. LOL!
Hosts being straightforward dere’s nth wrong.. dat’s the main aim of the show.. You Hua Jiu Shuo wad…

I’d choose to remain indifferent when it comes to dealing people like her. We shouldn’t put ourselves to her level. Wouldn’t it make us the same like her?? Chill Dasmond..

To Vel:

“well.. it’s also OTHER’S wish to REBUT what THEY like… it’s NOT childish of ppl to fight back blog entries.. grow up -.-”

so if you are wrongly accused by the police one day… do you just keep quiet and let them arrest and send you to jail for nothing? Since it’s thier wish to do so?

Off the topic, hope everyone is well here cos I experienced the big shake from the earthquake and the small shake on off in the middle of the nite. A bit scared now. :S

Dasmond, Maia is a very good friend of mine. Believe me, she was quite upset by what XX wrote about her. As such, she is already very misjudged by the general public because of the way the media portrays her. She doesn’t need an additional XX to taint her name further. You have interviewed Maia on that program before regarding single parenthood, so you should have gotten a general vibe about her. She doesn’t hide anything. Can’t you see from the fact she dared go up on stage and dared admit her reasons for bringing her kid up singlehandedly, even though she knew people would shoot her down? I don’t think its very fair to Maia by insinuating that XX and her were in cahoots. Maia will never want to associate herself with a person like XX anyway. Everyone can tell that XX was purely trying to get more hits. Also, XX is quite jealous of Maia, because of her popularity as a Stomp starblogger, and the fact that XX got fired off Stomp’s starblog made her a very sore sour grape indeed.

I am posting this because I really don’t like seeing people have all these misconceptions about Maia, as she is a very genuine person with a very kind heart. Just that its hard to see from her appearance.

later she start criticizing you in her blog leh. hahha she will probably dedicate one entry to you if she were to find this out, but nvm, you get free publicity! I read that entry too, and I can’t wait to watch that episode of “just shoot”

Please get the facts right that they did not invited them to gain show ratings/popularity. If its the truth, i think they would already invite those people who are popular already.

Not trying to flame anyone here but just stating the facts!!!!

1. When one is being invited as special guest for the show, I assumed he/she should know what they are in for, or at least asked few right questions before accepting this invitation. Otherwise, why accept? One must have either heard or at least learned about what the program is all about.

2. We are all adults, if one chose to accept the invitation than be prepared for whatever the challenge or result maybe. And don’t behave like an innocent party trying to put others down.

3. She is just a confused kid crying for attention!

4. XX don’t make people waste their brain juice if you can’t talk sense.

very well said Dasmond … support you all the way

XX is just a fake keyboard warrior who can only talk crap behind the PC … when come face to face on tv, she’s just another gutless kitty

Hmm…whatever it is,i’m treating it as entertainment loh…free one anyway.Good to see show and no need to pay what. Get so worked up for what? Yah lah…she spelled your name wrongly, that one cannot forgive.I also don’t like people who spelled my name wrong.Argh!
As for the rest of the points hor, i seriously treat it as entertainment. See see liao…forget about it. If she’s so narrow minded and loves being controversial, let her be loh.Typical ugly Singaporean lah…Dare to say, dare to go on programme,dare not own up.And i find it really funny that she acting qing1 gao1.LOL..please loh, can say so many things on her blog,’acting’ on the programme.Faintz flat on the floor loh.If not why is the show called ‘You hua jiu shou’ in the first place? Means that you dare to say out loud whatever is so called ‘forbidden’ in the first place.Chey…in short,she action lah!

Well Dasmond..everyone knows ur name is spelled with an “A”..dun care about her..
She always blog, pple will surely comment if she is too much or what..She always love to criticise be it other bloggers, cab drivers etc..as if everyone offend her..really cant stand her! I support u ??..watch shows that u host..anyway the show is meant for pple to share their views, surely will ask lots of questions and see how she ans..she cant simply because of someone then try to reject the invitation..that is personal thing with regard to Steven Lim..

I noticed something with the comments on both blogs. Most comments of each are commented by supporters of the authors of the blogs.

Anyway, I agree that she says things behind the computer screen is probably more comforting than talking everything on tv. After all, to hear the truth in words is probably less embarrasing or hurtful than appearing on national tv or someone telling you directly in your face.

I agree with PingTing:
If you were to ask him to do that (’fight’ or ‘command’) in real life, it might be a different thing already.

Well… from what I see, her world mainly comprises of dreams and fantasies… and Dasmond’s world comprise of reality…

To say it plainly, I am somewhat like her… living in my own fantasies, a world where there are no troubles. But when I get back to real life, I can’t seem to fit in anywhere. So I think that living in real life is much better than living in dreamland now.

This week has taught me that I should live my life and not in my own world/cyber space…

Well, we know what she’s like… and what you’re like. Just take this as an entertainment to see, enjoy and forget later on…

yeah. i totally agree with you. (:
dasmond rawks la. hahas.

I’m a regular reader of XX’s blog and I’m glad to say that I found this website. I used to listen to Dasmond on radio too, so I guess I am familiar to both her blogging style and Dasmond’s hosting style.

Do you guys know that the comments on the blog are heavily edited by her? My friends have tried to post things but unless what you say is in support of her opinions, or just plain rude and insulting to her, you don’t get your comments published.

This is her way of getting people to support her. Either you are on her side, or you are made to sound like you are really critical of her and thus will stir up more support for her.

I think Dasmond, you made a very good point about her not being able to speak her mind when she wants to.
I think she has a long way to go before she can make it in mainstream media, when she is on TV, she can only give incredulous looks and cannot give good retorts.

Our world is open and porous, it’s about time someone respected and well-known like Dasmond say what is on his mind.

I think it’s a good idea to invite Maia on the show. Let’s give her a chance to air her thoughts. It’s not easy to be a single mom and attacked by irresponsible people.

Maia’s friend “al”: You are great for sticking up for your friend.

Gosh. I’ve always hated Xia Xue. She always say mean things about others. I have absolutely no interest in people like her, obviously rude and fake. And she still say it’s not for publicity?

xx say one thing yet mean another thing.. say straightforward on tv but then go home blog say another thing.

I seriously enjoy the show last night ( thur’s Just Shoot). My dinner was hovering ard my throat threatening to be threw up when I saw the erm.. act-pretty-but-obviously-very-not-pretty guest.

It’s an interetsing session though! I LOVE LOVE LOVE the way you and Quan Yi Feng pair to host the show! =D

From my point of view, there is probably little time to react during the recording session. And she probably felt like an accused and thus was trying to be more defensive to “protect” herself from “attacks”.

When she is blogging, I assume that she blogs by herself without the actual presence of many others. She is able to express freely at that moment. But when she is on TV, she has to prepare herself for what will immediately come next, and will feel pressurized of how to answer sometimes. Most of the time, after an incident occurred, people will alter their views slightly due to the time taken to reflect on what had happened.

I think that no one can be totally consistent with what they say or do all the time. It depends on the situation, and in this case, expressing your views immediately on TV and writing what you really think on the blog in the safety of the home are very different context.

I personally feel that she is a bit rude with regard to the people she discussed on the blog. But I also feel that she spices up Singaporeans’ lives quite a bit. She is just dumping what she feels and thinks on her blog, without much filtering like many of us do. It’s just that she can be quite biased with what she says and definitely not objective. I must say that I admire her for her courage to put down seemingly honest reflections on her blog.

Hope that you got a view that you want to know about

Okay, first, I’m shocked to know that XX edits the comments on her blog. But then again, it’s highly possible, cos I can’t believe that there are that many people who seem to almost worship her. Hahaha. Next, Steven Lim *is* gross. Steven, if you’re reading this, too bad. Who ask you to always parade yourself in your yellow briefs and think that you’re handsome when you’re really not??? Don’t try to act innocent and pretend not to understand why many people think you’re gross. You’re gross and you know it!!!!!

Finally, Rong Shao, sometimes your comments can really be cutting (like on 93.3 FM last time), but I watched the episode of Shoot, and I didn’t think that you crossed the line. In fact, I was more bothered by how Cai4 Shen1 Jiang1 and his “buddy” kept attacking the interviewees with some pretty rude questions. Also, I hate the fact that they always get so agitated when they talk on the show. Gets on my nerves sometimes and I’ll have to switch to the another channel to get some “peace and quiet” before switching back to continue with the show.

Honestly, you and Quan Yifeng are pretty great hosts in this show. Do keep up the good work and don’t let other people bother you. On the other hand, kudos to you for speaking up for yourself, dAsmond! *;)

what u said was partially true.
However, if i was XiaXue, i would also be rolling my eyes in displeasure. Who would want to sit beside someone you dun like and talking peacefully.

Steven Lim looks intimidating, he isnt any better too.

If u dont want to appear being biased, u shd include facts about Steven too.

( cos he didn’t blog abt it… – from 22 )

oh Dasmond, i totally agree with you that If she can write in in her post, whats the prob of narrating it in the prog and since she claimed tat
she is very outspoken, hide nothing, straight forward why she as to be completely taken aback and can only smile with incredulous raised eyebrows…

anyway,my personal opinoin frm the way she project i felt that she gave me an impression that she is a “very popular celebrity” then you and quanyifong! OMG!!! well…hmm…perhaps mediacorp was the one who made her “HEAD SWELL”

again pardon me, juz my 2 cents worth!

Hi Dasmond

It’s Maia here. I dread to be associated with that thing and honestly, I swear I have nothing to do with that thing and definitely not in cahoots with that thing.

If you would like to know, her number is stored as ‘C–T’ in my phonebook.

I didn’t want to clarify anything with the media until time has passed. I don’t hate her but I dislike her now.

Look, I’ve known her since 2003 – she’s the friend of my friend’s sister and I just happened to be introduced to her while out for lunch at Parco (where she worked in a handphone shop) with my friend.

So we exchanged numbers, and contacted each other once in a blue moon. I was ok with her, and even thought she’s ‘friend’.

I don’t know what the hell happened on Starblog or in life or whatsoever which caused her to go out against me – which is the ONLY reason that I find association with her absolutely revolting right now.

I cannot stand backstabbers just like everyone else.

I’ve said all I can, but at the end of the day, should she need help, yeah, I’ll still be here and she knows who to call. Simply because I’m not as cunning or heartless.

Peace out and luv
Maia

If I didn’t know who you were and read your post, I would think it’s some teenybopper writing with all that internet speak, singlish and annotations. You definitely should stick to chinese TV.

Enjoy Shoot 1,2 and 3. Both you and Qian Yi Fung host a good programme well.

Keep up the good work and send my regards to your 2 regular guests – sorry I don’t know their names even after watching 3 seasons – I only know them as Mr. Social Worker and Mr. Journalist after late into season 2. They rock.

And as for you, Dasmond, just ignore her. This program provided a good chance for the nation to see how timid is she. She is only brave behind the computer screen. This program is suppose to be controversial, otherwise it’s not necessary to have different guests providing different views.

in fact, everyone have their own opinion and i see no point that why you should take xiaxue’s comments to heart. like the common phrase that bloggers always said, “it’s THEIR blog! they are free to post whatever they wants.” don’t you think so too?

everyone knew that xiaxue is straight forward and often blunt in her words, but no matter what, i guess that’s her own character that makes her popular just by a blog.

i’ve watched the show “you hua jiu shuo” and indeed, i find that those questions thrown to her are indeed asked in a very blunt way too. i remember someone in the show says that Steven Lim and Xiaxue is alike in term of behavior just because they insult each other in their blog during the “blog war”.

ain’t those people involve in the show are doing the same too? it might not be rude for the person who did the asking, but you will never know how the other party whose answering thinks about it.

i’m not siding anyone, just my two cents worth.

Hey there

I am not a fan of Chinese telly or radio but stumbled here via tomorrow.sg. Was tempted to say your job sucks because of things like this, but I hope you don’t feel demoralised. Keep doing a good job at work and be professional unlike those you probably meet in your job, like her.

Jiayou

Hi Dasmond, as a 3rd party reading both your post and XX’s post on this matter, I observed a number of issues.

1st. Your replies or reactions (via this post) seems ‘childish’ and immature for your age, status and experience. e.g. your reply to #1. “I noe its my fault for not being able to make my name well known, but with due respect… my name spelled with an A, Dasmond Koh” – sounds like a 15 yr old boy and it doesn’t seem to rebuke or have any relation to XX’s 1st point (we can go through every point you made in this point with regards to her comments).

2nd. If the questions posed to her were indeed word for word, I believe you guys were putting her on the spot on national TV. Hmmm… I doubt anyone would wanna be put in a difficult spot on national TV (including yourself), especially on a popular programme you’re hosting. I have several ideas if you wanna bring up ratings or viewer numbers.

3rd. I think it is only fair and just for you to reply her post regarding the programme. However, with your experience, status and interpersonal skills, I believe you could have taken a more ‘friendly approach’ rather than behaving as such. You could have use other means to protray her ’straight forwardness’ during the show. Maybe the show needs some controversial publicity?

Let me know if I offended you but I wrote with good intention.

Good Luck! = )

( No worries – 22 )

IMO, blogs are for people to voice their feelings on issues and events that impact them. of course these feelings would be deemed biased to the outside world, coz these are the going-ons in the author’s mind not the reader’s mind.

so i dont see why everyone wants to get the author to blog abt things that readers can/will/want to accept. what’s the point of a personal blog then? why should this change when a personal blog goes public?

do think abt it before blasting people for not agreeing with you, as a reader, and your views. how can you expect the author to mould himself/herself into someone based on the tens of thousands readers’ different views?

it’s true that it’s easier to voice personal thoughts on a blog, behind a persona. i dont see why people disagree on this. i’m sure everyone who owns a ‘personal’ blog would have complained about someone they dislike from time to time, be it the boss, that colleague, this movie star or that sch bully. it would have been a totally different scenario to make you say the same stuff to your boss/sch bully’s face in reality, wouldnt it?

do note that it’s entirely different to be placed in the spotlight and made to answer what one deems as ‘politically correct’ views in a flash. even if the show is supposedly known for it’s straightforwardness,but holding it’s recordings in a public area, i’m sure producers dont wish to see a supposed discussion turn into an ugly heated verbal argument then into an awkward stage in a public place. verbal argument would have made good entertainment value, true, but an ugly heated one? i dont think so.

i’m sure anyone being filmed and broadcast on national tv would want to retain some sort of reputation, no matter who the person is. i dont think you should be so quick to disagree on that. coz i’m sure you are the few who would shy away from a camera crew with a camera in your face.

all celebrities have a glorified image, as deemed by their managers, to retain. i’m sure most singaporeans want to save their ‘face’ on national tv as well. it’s not done on purpose, it’s just a auotmated mechanism to shield oneself.

not siding anyone really.. just imo.

1.Heh, desmond is a more common spelling-i don’t blame her for saying it wrongly.. (also, she’s more english-inclined so she probably doesn’t watch channel 8. i don’t either, actually..)

2.I wouldn’t go within a 100 feet of steven lim much less talk to him either! (but i can see why you don’t think it’s a big deal, too)

3.she probably found it offensive cos she doesn’t like Maia, just the way she doesn’t like steven lim and doesn’t want to talk about him/to him

4.It’s practically attacking her integrity

5.People like her aren’t used to being asked such questions face to face and so bluntly unless it’s by her friends, i think.

6.Usually when invited as a guest on a show, you are asked non-offensive questions (i’m not saying your questions were, but they would make someone feel quite small unless they had the hide of an elephant) and don’t prod so much. It makes the person feel uncomfortable.. But she should have known that, cos that’s what your show’s about.

I think neither of you are at fault here, but that you shouldn’t bear a grudge.

Don’t take me wrongly, i’m not her fan, but we all have feelings, and i think she deserves a bit of defense. She’s straightforward, like you said, so if you two cut each other some slack, everyone will be a lot happier!

ur like so petty . and ur soposed to be a GUY ? n ur like juts using xia xue to get publicity arnt u becoming like steven lim oh meybe thats y u like him . and the more **** u write here about xia xue the more famous n popular she becomes

u know what.. i think she expresses herself better in writing rather than in words. so maybe that’s why she doesn’t seem as candid and blunt as she is in her blog. besides, it’s unfair to expect her to insult Steven Lim on TV. National TV no less, mind you! She would become public enemy #1 for sure!

cheers.

shut up you whiner.

XIAXUE ROCK OKAYE.
shes telling it like it is.

and you’re a GUY.
Oh GOD.

something tells me you moderate comments & u might just moderate mine away.
most ppl just want to approve comments agreeable to them.

what went through my mind while reading the post:

blogger is bloody childish can??
spelling mistake cnnt tahan little bit also want to whine & kao gui chiam zeng.
dots lor.
IMMATURE.

dunno how to blog, just very lihai copy & paste ppl’s contents then tackle one by one.
idiocracy on the loose.

supposing if xiaxue applied for copyrights…

hahaha desmond or dasmond… who cares?? the correct spelling is desmond, actually.

I think everyone likes XiaXue more because there is humor in her writing…have you seen Kathy Griffin performs? yea, Kathy reminds me of XiaXue. Some people insult with no humor, just straight forward insult, like what you are doing….You remind me of Sarah Silverman..hahahaa….and thx to her, people knows you now..

das..u misunderstood her.

i think you misunderstood xiaxue. she’s just blogging about how she feels about stuff. why do you guys want to make it out like she’s got ulterior motive for blogging about steven lim or maia or whoever. so as to raise her popularity?? no. even without those posts about steven lim or whoever, im still enjoying her regular posts.

she didnt mean to downgrade maia or steven in her posts, she’s just writing about how she feels. so why must she clarify on why she write what she feels, when everyone has different feelings towards everything?? it will come to no end.

im seriously disappointed to see you writing this post. i’ve always liked you. but now… i don’t know. you seemed so nice to her on the show, but now you’re writing this. i hope this is not a way to raise your popularity.

maia you are freaking free huh?

Shut up wont you? XX is a million times better than you.

dEsmond koh: stop moderating your comments and reflect on yourself. Cunt.

FＯＲ　ＧＯＯＤＮＥＳＳ SAKE!!!!!! read properly will you? she was just saying what she thinks, dont get so offended easily can?

dasmond, please ignore her la.. why get upset over a small girl who talk without using her brain? Whole of singapore knows what kinda person she is no matter how she deny or what. Dont get piss off by a crazy and always talking rubbish girl

Hahaha, no offense but who the hell spells Desmond with an A? Only Ah Bengs who are trying to be “different”.

zhen rong,
you’re just plain immature…pls grow.

Seriously, what is wrong with Xiaxue’s entry? You know Xiaxue is known for being very very straightforward and most of us out there like the way she expresses her thoughts because in Singapore, there are too many people like you who fuss about small minute details. I used to like you cos you are a good host but I stopped supporting you like 5 minutes ago. I am quite disappointed with you and didn’t know you were such a petty person.

hi, i think you’re being overly critical of wendy.

as a host, can’t you be more objective and accept criticism anyway even though she wasn’t directing it to you.

in any case, i thought the questions posed to her were rather insensitive.

and in case it never occured to you, ‘Desmond’ is more commonly spelt than ‘Dasmond’, it’s not surprising that people may misspell your name.

what’s the deal about you.

in this entry- it’s ironical that you’re more hypocritical than you claim xiaxue to be; with that fake plastic smile plasted across your face during the show.

I was directed to this via XX’s blog. Must make it clear I’m not her supporter, just interesting to see someone who can be so in-your-face with her blog entries and get paid for a living. I can’t stand her but still read her blog.

To be fair to XX, she did maintain her displeasure with having to be in the show with Steven Lim, so I beg to differ with those who said her real life behaviour did not mirror how she blogged.

Dasmond (what’s with the fixation with an ‘a’ and an ‘e’?), you’re being childish, and your attitude isn’t that great either.
Or are you just trying to increase your hit rate? Well, you succeeded in this case cos I just visited your site. Well done…not!

sorry to say this,
but seriously, xiaxue is just mere commenting on her blog and she made no personal attacks or watever.
and hi dasmond koh,
i dont respect you anymore.
cos you are not worthy of my respect.

2. If she can write in in her post, whats the prob of narrating it in the prog? *scratch head*

as for this. HA. how old are you.

stop being so petty.

oh and! you should improve your english, seriously.

hi dasmond. hmm. truthfully i din noe ur name is spelled wif A. hmm u noe on TV it was shown as “www.desmondkoh.com”

So i guess this is your way of getting attention? Criticising others? Why don’t you be more creative, instead of following XX’s footsteps and criticising people.

and what’s with the english.

A or E, it doesn’t really matter. We can call you anything we like and you can’t do shit about it.

what’s your prob? xx seems more sophistiated than you, don’t be so childish, man.

you know what i think about you? you’re childish and think you very good. -.- i beg to differ. the way you portray yourself on tv, always suaning people, it sickens me. it’s not funny. rather, it’s disgusting.

Lousy english man.

I went to google your picture to find out who you are. Didn’t realised that ‘that guy’ on TV speaks such english with lousy english.

How you type really shows your character.

with all the ‘las’ ‘hors’, you really show yourself as an ah beng

So you’re doing all these because someone spelled your name wrongly? Another Steven lim?

yeah. i honestly misjudged you das.

hey dude how old are you!
i read her blog post. and i believe it was an innocuous casual remark which wasnt meant to offend anyone. it’s her freedom of space; and if she felt that the talkshow hosts were rather blatant in their questions posed to her, well then let her voice out her opinions!
you as an older and experienced veteran in the media world should at least be sensitive enough to understand how she would feel if she were invited to this show with the most hated guy on earth. she had written an awfully rude post about steven lim and it would be even more stinging if she were to say exactly what she said in her acrimonious post right in the face of steven lim!
seriously dude, imagine that you are invited to another show with xiaxue, and you are asked why you had said all that about her in your blog post right slam in her face??? i can imagine the palpable tension.
You are picking on such minute and insignificant matters and hurling groundless accusations about her personality, about someone you probably have zero knowledge of.
she only stated that the talkshow hosts were rather straightforward, almost insulting and in-your-face. no personal qualms or anything by the way. even though she didnt want to be on the show she still went on ahead; notice her non-diva-esque behaviour.
as a neutral party im not taking any sides. but i strongly believe here that you are in the wrong and i hope you will take my comments into serious consideration and do some rumination on the corollary of your careless remarks.

With much respect and regards,
Hi have a good day!

dasmond i’m pretty disappointed in you. all this while i’ve such high respect for you. too bad, after this post, it went all down the drain. watch you and the cai shen jiang on Just Shoot 3? no more frigging way.

erm.. how to say.. If you are the person being asked so many harsh questions, you wont say something like you can answer straight forward, blah blah blah.. you just cant. Here, you are just the same as XX in a way that you commented.

or maybe you’re just trying to be famous by trying to shoot her back on internet, so yea, u have no rights to say about her anyway cause your one of those ppl who rides on ppl’s fame.

I don’t think XX was rude in her post. She was just stating about what she thought, she did not specifically said that YOU were being rude to her, so why jump into your own conclusion? Oh god, I’m really appalled that you will post an entry like this. Because when I watched the programme, you’re nice and pretty straight forward in a good way. But this post was totally unexpected and spoilt your own image.

Please. The name “Desmond” is spelt with a an “e”. Yours is just some ah beng way of making your name “special”. It’s almost as if you cannot spell. Doesn’t anyone else think it’s pathetic that people make up these “cool” “english” names for themselves?

seriously.. i think the main point here is not you.. no need to get all offended..

even i was affronted with how rudely the qns were asked. maia had to endure the same rude treatment too.

whatever:

pls lah you nothing nice to comment abt don comment such things about dasmond. you dont even noe him

OMG dEsmond(koh?sorry i dont know your name)you’re making too big a fuss over such a too small thing?
I think it would have been better if you were still in Radio and Not on my television cos right now i have to switch off my tv just cos of your fake face.
XX’s always known for being straightforward.
are you? your sad attempts to try to emulate her is just that-SAD.

i like xiaxue.dasmond,if u realli dun lyk wad she is why didnt u say anything about it during the show?sorry for being so rude but im jus speakin my mind

I think is quite lame afterall -.-”
hahahs.
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my aunts knows you
LOLS !
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omg..u ppl jealous with xiaxue cos she is so popular?she was just stating her feeling after the interview.y u r taking it so seriously?she wasn accusing u of anything.so y do this to her?and u r even a GUY..so xiao chi..my god..i just dont believe it.

jesus christ, grow up you pussy

hello dEsmond … stop being all over urself … u and ur freaking name …

you’re merely picking out mild faults from XX’s blog and trying to gain popularity.

it’s all seen from the program itself. you and QYF trying to advertise your blogs whenever possible.

dAsmond:

i must say i am rather shocked by ur behaviour, especially when u are a DJ/TV personality well known by many. what makes u better than her when u too criticise people on ur blog? seriously, if someone throws u a difficult question on national TV how would you respond? give the answer and behave the way that people expect you to? cant believe u are this ridiculous and childish. by making such ‘comments’ on ur blog, i dont think u are very ‘polite’. and please, improve your english.

whats the big deal!
so she spelled your name wrongly,omggggggg we’re all gonna die. -.-
so what! youre not that famous, and she’s not the only one who made that honest mistake.
stop victimizing her! just because she’s straightforward?
and i dont understand why somany people are agreeing with your unreasonable points.actually.i dont knowcause i gave up after reading the first 7 ridiculous comments.

IF you’re a man, i think you owe HER an apology. I don’t think xiaxue deserved such stupid sarcasms from you. Especially when she liked you the most among those people and the fact that the post wasn’t that offensive at all(okay, her current one may slightly be, although her criticisms are STILL not directed at you).

This is seriously from a third party point of view, in fact i quite liked you. Until I realised how petty and unreasonable you are.

And please don’t be rude. It’s Xiaxue, not Xia xue. Sorry she’s not famous enough for you to take the effort to post her name correctly.

pfft. talk about being petty. =)

i think people shouldnt be too harsh on either xiaxue or dasmond. either i read about insults regarding xiaxue or i see people scolding dasmond.

dasmonds response to xiaxues entry does have some validity. read it objectively, naturally all those questions that dasmond has raised will come to you too.

i am a fan of xiaxue, i like her blog, but i am not always going to go, oh shes right dasmonds wrong dasmond is such a %$#@! i hate you blah and blah.

people are entitled to their own opinions and this is dasmonds thoughts. he did not publicise them in a nasty way, he did it in a civil way, and anyway this is his blog! i assume he has at least that little bit of freedom to speak up in defence for himself? ( after all, xiaxue does seem as if shes offended by the questions the hosts asked. )

cant you people cut both of them some slack? its just a stupid misunderstanding, he cleared things up and you still wanna go on and on about this? please, get a life. if you dont like dasmond ( or xiaxue ) why do you still visit their blogs? to get high by insulting them? whats your problem man?

by the way dasmond, i think youre cute!(: i like your shows and i am also an ardent fan of yours. yknow what, dont give a damn about what others say, when youre a celebrity youre bound to have haters. continue doing your stuff yar!

people eat your hearts out

p.s. i remember the spelling of your name clearly because its unique.

I’ve read that post. I dun tink that she’s trying to bombard the programme…the host or anything at all. Just imagine you are trying to promote that show…you will write out an intro on that programme right?.. Anyway the post is like so long ago..and now you bring up this topic. The 1st thing that comes into my mind is…Oh My God~! Are you really that childish? Are you trying to do publicity for yourself? As what you said in the Shoot 3 Lol…have a catfight with her..and you will be famous~! And you are so…careful with your words use…WTF stands for what the fish? The 2nd comment that you made..utterly make urself as a stupid person..she merely wrote..” What exactly did I write about Steven? Say it in his face.” Which i would have seen it as..”that” particular question is asked during the programme..and she dint mention that she mind it that much that she’s being ask that question At all..
p.s: I’m nt xiaxue’s fan at all…i’m just dissapointed that my fav DJ..acted so …Childish..

I think I would have spelled your name wrongly too actually. Sorry. Dasmond is just not a common way of spelling it. See, even the spell check has put a little dotted red line under it.

And next, I thought it was a little mean to put XX in such a spot. ‘Am I being controversial to get publicity’ kind of questions.. As professional as you may be, you wouldn’t have liked it too right?

I do see you on TV now and then, but I didn’t know you sounded so different on your blog. Sigh.

u misunderstood her ladey. duhhh.

seriously, improve your english and re-read xiaxue’s post. i don’t see anything wrong with what she wrote on her post, seems to me just a mere narration of what happened! you need to get a life man

Firstly, I have to make my stand clear. I am siding neither party. Just giving my two cents worth.

Been reading your blog and of course, xiaxue’s. I’ve never once commented on both. But now, I feel that justice has to be done.

I seriously think you should take back what you commented on xiaxue. Though you have the right to voice out your views. You have to bear in mind that you’re a celebrity, a well-known one. We don’t call you “Rong Shao” for nothing. For you giving such comments doesnt reflect very well on your personality which undoubtly is really good. I know you might mean no harm by blogging such entry, I know exactly how xiaxue felt.

Like her, I’ve “heard” you since i was really young. From you being a popular DJ among teens to a reputable host, I saw you through all that. And I believe Xiaxue, too, did the same.

How exactly will you feel is someone does that to you? Let alone someone you’ve always looked up to. Respect her like how she respected you. It’ll really do you good.

It is obvious that Xiaxue’s not referring to you in her blog about how rude the questions were posted to her. Anyone who saw the talkshow can tell that its the other tactless gentleman. I’m sure you know what I mean.

Don’t do this to yourself, don’t do this to xiaxue. She’s just a known blogger but you’re a celebrity. Not that celebrities cannot voice out he/her opinion, just that what you said will be blown up and exagerated. That, you’re doing yourself unjust.

I dont see why xiaxue deserve this from you when she’d looked up to you even after what she saw in your blog. Think it over.

Do yourself a favour, be yourself, even online. You are well respected for being friendly and you’ve touched many hearts with your sincerity. Be the rong shao we know yeah? blog like yourself.

PS: You might not know who I am but whats impt is I know you and Singapore knows you.

Thanks for taking time to read through.

Regards.

i think this whole thing is a mountain out of a molehill. its JUST a show. i mean, she didn’t insult you in her blog, she didn’t write YOUR name. i’ve watched the show and i think that old geezer is definitely to insulting. he talks like he’s going to get up and punch you in the face.

the stuff she wrote was very very mild. -.-

You’re a very childish person, did you know? Immature too. Your typing makes my brother’s look intellectual.

There’s a difference between being straightforward and being downright rude, by the way. Get it right.

“YOU HUA JIU SHOU” the show is LAME la. Actully is not the show is the people siting down apart from the GUEST.

Are they the f**king “JUDEGES” or what? I saw the show with has XIAXUE invited. And the “judges” were like acting they are VERY CLEVER! And WHAT THE HELL ! SOME DON NOT EVEN KNOW WHAT IS THE CONFLICT ABOUT AND THEY FREAKING COMMMENTED?

So is the show teaching us how to be KAPOS who do not know a situation of something then COMMENT LOUDLY on national tv making a joke of them self?

Eg. They dun even know what xiaxue scold steven lim! And vias verse

And from the show! EVERYONE IS LIKE ATTACKING HER! Only 1 of the female “judge” and 1 other guest was helping her!

So is the show teaching how to bully someone ? 5 VS 1?

I second Poison.

You’re being incredibly childish.
It’s pretty obvious that xx was just making a passing comment. And IMHO, she wasn’t even attacking you.

Jeeez wth is wrong with you people?!?!

Dasmond,

Very clever indeed…I remember you talking abt “how can we ever get our blogs to be as successful as XX’s?” Are u trying to pull XX’s 20,000 readers over to your blog, jst this once? (I say once cos with the kind of grammar & ‘zero blogging talent’ you have, you’ll only succeed at ONCE)

you are sooooo utterly DISGUSTING!!!!!

hello excuse me please dasmond is not a producer on the show i doubt he had any countrol over the situation except to front it. so stop flaming him like it’s his fault that both steven lim and xiaxue were on the show???

and i think you hua jiu shuo has a very good concept behind it at least it shows that there are singaporeans who actually DARE to have AN OPINION.

and dasmond i think this post is very very funny. albeit rude. but please pple, does anyone EVER take blog posts seriously??? i think xiaxue is funny too, though not so much now. blogging = entertainment. and entertainment = not taking things seriously.

my goodness i can’t believe i just wasted time commenting – see this is what we do, whether blogging or commenting.

I think you and your commenters are just not used to xiaxue, some don’t even know her. This doesn’t mean you can just assume she’s doesn’t have any feelings because she’s straigtfoward. I watched the show, its your co-co-hosts that were damn rude. You should put yourself in her shoes.

So would you like me to ask you whether you’re blogging this because you want to get famous? You did mention that your blog is not so popular and even asked xx to link you.

SO LIKE, WHATEVER! This is so not going to be approved but whatever much.

this is plain childish and its downright lame. brush up your english before you even think of commenting on someone spelling your name wrongly. XX is known to be blunt, and you are childish for commenting on such insignificant things. besides, if you don’t like it, than don’t read her blogpost.

well, duh, maia’s friend would of course support her and xiaxue has her own friends as well.

second marissa, you have just succeeded at pulling xiaxue’s blog readers to your post. congrats~

LAME~

I seriously think you don’t know Wendy enough to criticize what she says or blog.

I won’t denial but I do read her blog, but I don’t actually consider myself her fan. I just found that injustice is done here to her. Please do note that Wendy is very straightforward and it’s different from being rude.

Plus, she blogs her feelings letting the whole world know. (precisely that fact that it is on the World Wide Wed)

It’s definitely better than cowards of visiting your blog leaving rude commen